Hate

Hi people. Weirdly it hasn't even been a week and I'm writing again. I don't know if I'm just in the right mood or I feel guilty for not writing for months. Either ways here's a new one.

So, the word is "hate". Why? I was texting one of my internet best friends about a really annoying girl, I won't say their names. While talking she asked me if I hated that girl and that made me thing about this new blogpost, so I'm writing it while I still have the idea.

I consider the word "hate" one of the worst words ever. It's a really serious topic for me.
Hate it's not one of those words you can use randomly like "banter", no. The dictionary says "to dislike intensely or passionately; feel extreme aversion for orextreme hostility toward; detest". So, if you use that word seriously, you must feel something horrible in your deep, it's not just not standing someone.

I'm telling you this because I've been "hated" by some people for years and, trust me, it's probably the worst feeling ever. When people tell you that, if you're like me and, unfortunately, care about what other people think of you, it destroys you. It makes you being sad, so sad that all you want to do it's to cry. So, please, think about what you're saying before saying it. I get you, if you mean you can't stand someone because it's super annoying or acts like a b*tch, I know way too many people like that. Or also if those people are bullying you and they make you feel like shit, I get you again, I felt the same in the past.(if you're wondering, yes I got bullied, but I won't talk about that now, probably I'll never do if you don't ask me) 

But if you don't like them, just ignore them. It's easier, no? I know sometimes it's difficult to ignore some people, but I learnt how to and you can too. They are just people who don't deserve your attention. Just leave them.

I don't know if this post was good or not, but it's more like a little rant so, if it wasn't, I'm sorry. These are just my thoughts though. 

And you? Have you ever used the word "hate" when it wasn't really necessary? Have you ever been "hated"? Comment down here, I'm ready to hear you.

S xx