A lot of people say "nobody is perfect", but what do you mean with perfect? Is there an idea of perfection that's the same for all? I don't think so.
Personally, when I say that someone is perfect (because I do) I mean that's perfect with his/her/its flaws and stuff, and I love him/her/it because it's like that. They're perfect to me. (does it make sense?)
But I know that some people, when they say it, they mean seriously without any flaw. Usually those people are talking about their idols and I feel them, cause I used to think the same for a while.
Maybe that person to you appear like it has no defects, but I'm sure that everybody has at least one. I have more than one, my friend has one, my family have one, why shouldn't that person have one too?
Everybody, in special if famous, try to hide their flaws and problems and appear to people only in the way they want to. Have you ever tried to do this? I did a lot of times, cause I'm insicure and I don't want to appear like that. One of my friend hid me one of her problems for a while, not because she didn't trust me, but because she didn't want to appear like what she really was.
I know it sounds a little bit sad, but everyone do this, someone less then others, but we do.
So everybody can appear perfect, they could be perfect to you and just you, but nobody really is.
But if you know a person and you know him/her really well, you'll find out those flaws and, if you're friends, you'll like them with all the rest of his/her beautiful qualities. (or you could ignore them, it depends by you)
Have you ever hidden your flaws? Or maybe someone you know did it?
Comment this post, i will answer to all of them (and maybe click +1)
bye xx
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